Who's in Charge?

Quote
"A man has to learn that he cannot command things, but that he can command himself; that he cannot coerce the wills of others, but that he can mold and master his own will: and things serve him who serves Truth; people seek guidance of him who is master of himself."
-James Allen

My Thoughts
Are you focused on what everyone else is doing, or are you focused on what you are doing? In situations do you find yourself reacting emotionally, or do you pause and think about the situation? Do you find yourself wishing everyone else would change?

We all sometimes find ourselves wandering through life on autopilot. We may look back and say "Wow it's already May, where did the time go?". And for that brief instance we may become aware of our thoughts and attempt to shift direction. Unfortunately, for so many people they end up going back on autopilot and the months turn into years. These people find themselves looking back over life wishing they had done this or that.

What can be done?
The first step is that when you have this moment of awareness, acknowledge that you are off track and would like to change (this assumes that you are off track and you want to change; sometimes people are comfortable in their own misery).
After realizing you want to change, ask yourself "What steps can I take right now to bring about this change?".
Finally, start taking the steps. Remember the steps may appear small at first, but you must do them.
It is no good to merely wish for something. You need to take action.
These steps will eventually build themselves into habits.
You will be amazed as you look back and realize that what appeared to be a small decision to change altered your entire life.

I encourage all of you seeking change to be honest with yourselves.
If you really want change, is the time for change now? Is it next year? Is it when you are 60?
Only you can honestly answer that question.
Stop denying the life that is calling you and start living up to your fullest potential.

Until next time...